Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, but brides-to-be don't have to do it alone. We went to the experts to get their advice: A year in advance like with so many other things, the budget is key.
"Nailing down where the funds are coming from — whether it's the parents of the bride or the couple is paying for everything themselves — is the most important thing, along with the number of guests," says Michelle Elliott of Elegant Events in Riverside.
After that, other details will fall into place.
Researching the sites for both the wedding and reception is important, says angela M. Boyd, owner of Beautiful Creations by angela. Find out if there will be other large events or any construction happening at the same time as your wedding.
Then select caterers, food and beverage vendors, florists, musicians and a limousine service. Consider hiring a coordinator.
"They can help you save money on all of the other vendors," Boyd says. "They can tell you which ones have good reputations, which ones don't show up on time and which ones have insurance. When you're doing it alone, you have no clue." Seven to nine months Make the final decision about the wedding gown.
"The bride needs to allow a couple months for alterations once the gown arrives," says Kathryn Branchcomb of alfred angelo Bridal in Riverside.
Firm up plans for the catering, flowers, cake and other vendor services. Decide if you want a buffet or sit-down dinner. Work on the invitations.
Book accommodations for out-of-town guests, mail save-the-date cards, take any required pre-marital classes (depending upon religion), and plan the ceremony details.
One to six months Finalize the guest list and send out invitations, buy party favors, bridesmaids' gifts, flower girl baskets, garter, guest book and the ring pillow.
Have the final bridal gown fitting, plan the bridal shower and rehearsal dinner, obtain the wedding license, and make appointments for hair and makeup.
Re-confirm everything with all of the vendors at least three weeks before the wedding.
Branchcomb adds one more tip: break in those new shoes.
"it's always a good idea to wear them and walk around on the carpet at home to get used to them," she says.